Civil ceremonies in England and Wales must not include religious content. That rule covers music as well as readings, which catches some couples out when they choose their walking-down-the-aisle song.
The basic rule
A civil ceremony, whether in a register office or an approved venue, cannot include hymns or songs with obvious religious references. A love song that mentions heaven in passing may be fine, but a hymn will not be. The registrar has the final say.
Ask the registrar early
Most register offices ask couples to submit their ceremony music in advance. Send your list as early as you can, with lyrics if a song is borderline. Then confirm the final list with your singer.
When live music is played
- Entrance: as the wedding party walks in.
- Signing the register: usually one or two songs while the paperwork is completed.
- Exit: an upbeat song as the couple leave.
Choosing a ceremony performer
- A solo vocalist such as Lisa Pearson or Stacey Leadbeatter.
- An acoustic duo such as Becky & Josh.
- A pianist-vocalist such as Adam Press.
Ceremony rooms are often quiet and small, so ask for a light set-up and agree where the performer stands.
Humanist and celebrant ceremonies
Celebrant-led ceremonies are not bound by the same civil ceremony rules, although the legal part of the marriage may be done separately. Check with your celebrant.
Quick answers
Can we have Ave Maria in a civil ceremony?
Usually not, because it is a religious song. Ask your registrar.
Can the same singer perform at the evening party?
Many do. Booking one performer for the ceremony and the evening keeps things simple.
Next steps
Ask about a ceremony singer for your date.
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